So, I came back to New Jersey and started looking in the liquor stores for this ambrosia. Wegmans? No. Berkeley Heights chichi wine place? No. Then I remembered that my realtor (source of all great local information) she shopped at the small liquor store that I pass by when I get coffee before work, so a couple days before this shot (I didn't drink THAT much in one sitting, thank you), I checked out that store, and stood in awe of all the different froo-froo drinks available, and they had my lovely X-Rated.
So, I made myself a fruity pink drink, and I think when I go get a refill of this, I'll take a picture of the selection of day-glo cocktails available.