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What is high maintenance? - Princess
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What is high maintenance?
What, really, constitutes being high maintenance?

I ponder this, because I think I've finally come to the conclusion that I'm not a low maintenance kind of gal, which I used to think I was when I was younger. Yet, I really don't consider myself high maintenance, either. I don't feel the need to flip out every time my honey wants to spend time alone or with his friends; I understand that need. I don't feel it's necessary for him to be buying me presents all the time, although it's nice, once in a while.

But if he goes away on a trip for a week or so, I do think he should call me every other day or so, because I do have a need/want/desire to talk to him and share how my days have been going while he's gone, and find out how he's been doing too.

My friend Heather thinks that's weird, and that once a week would be enough for a phone call.

So, what do you think constitutes 'high maintenance?'

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bene From: bene Date: February 13th, 2001 12:18 pm (UTC) (Link)

hnh

I guess on the calling thing, it would depend on what he was doing. If he were out snowboarding or somthing where he would have a high chance of getting really hurt, then yeah I'd want to hear from him probably almost daily. But if he were just being a bum with friends off somewhere, then once in the middle of the trip would do perfectly fine. Then again, I'm a freak :)
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